兒童英語學習——人生的幾條建議

　 兒童英語學習——人生的幾條建議

   1. Sometimes things don’t work out, which opens your mind to new things. Better things.
　　有時候，做事不一定有結(jié)果。但它會帶你認識新事物，認識更好的。
　　2. Learn from your experiences. They will make you a better, wiser, and more patient person.
　　從以往的經(jīng)歷中吸取教訓。它們會使你變得更好、更睿智、更有耐心。
　　3. Don’t pry. You don’t need to know every detail. And in return it will make you more peaceful and happy.
　　不要打探。你無需知道所有細節(jié)，這樣會使你更平和、更幸福。
　　4. Not every mishap in life needs to become a struggle or argument. Let it go.
　　不是生活中每次不幸都需要去抗爭或爭辯，要順其自然。
　　5. There are going to be peo that simply do not like you. Don’t take it personally. Remember that you too don’t like every person you meet.
　　有些人就是不喜歡你。不要以為只有你這樣，記住你也不是喜歡遇到的每個人。
　　6. Don’t speak ill of other peo. It only brings negativity to and upsets your life, not theirs.
　　不要說別人的壞話。這只會給你的生活帶來負面影響，擾亂你的生活，而非別人的生活。
　　7. Be open-minded. Everyone is dealt a different hand. You can learn from and appreciate the differences.
　　思想開放。每個人能力不同，你會從中學到東西并感謝這些差異。
　　8. Don’t leave something for tomorrow. It’s better to get it done. You’ll be more relaxed and guilt free.
　　不要把事情留到明天。 好盡快做完，你會感覺更輕松愜意。
　　9. Be confident. Confidence attracts good peo and positive vibes.
　　要自信。自信能吸引優(yōu)秀的人，營造積極氣氛。
　　10. Live in the moment. It will never happen again and you will only be left with a memory.
　 兒童英語學習——人生的幾條建議

　　活在當下。同樣的事情不會再次發(fā)生，留下的只有回憶。
　　11. Appreciate the peo you love. You never know when that kiss, hug or time together will be the last.
　　感激你所愛的人。你永遠不會知道哪個吻、擁抱或相聚是 后一次。
　　12. Learn to be by yourself. It’s the only way you can truly love and understand yourself.
　　學會依靠自己。這是唯一能使你真正愛自己并理解自己的方法。
　　13. It’s ok to make mistakes. They do not define you.
　　犯錯誤也沒關(guān)系。錯誤不能代表你的一切。
　　14. Time is your worst and best friend. It is the only thing that can mend your heart break.
　　時間是你 壞的也是 好的朋友。它是唯一能修復(fù)受傷心靈的東西。
　　15. If you honestly think you can do something, you honestly can.
　　如果你真的認為自己能做什么，你就一定能。
　　16. It’s ok to miss peo that were once a huge part of your life, but that doesn’t mean you need them in your life now.
　　想念曾經(jīng)在你生活中很重要的人很正常，但這并不意味著你現(xiàn)在的生活需要他們。
　　17. Don’t be stubborn. It will get you nowhere.
　　不要固執(zhí)。這對你一點用都沒有。
　　18. Take advantage of your 20s. It’s the time to explore and discover. Don’t feel rushed to "grow up." That’s what your 30s, maybe 40s, are for.
　　利用好你20多歲的時光。這個年齡段你可以去探索、去發(fā)現(xiàn)，不要急著長大，那是30多歲或40多歲時該考慮的事。
　　19. No one else should dictate how you feel.
　　沒有人能決定你的感受。
　 兒童英語學習——人生的幾條建議

　　20. Don’t mistreat someone else’s heart and don’t allow someone to mistreat yours.
　　不要傷別人的心，也不要讓別人傷你的心。
　　21. Don’t be afraid to say hello.
　　不要害怕跟別人打招呼。
　　22. Do things for you.
　　為自己做些事。
　　23. Be dependent on no one but yourself. In the end you, are responsible for getting yourself through.
　　不要依靠別人，只能依靠自己。 終還是要自己幫自己克服困難。
　　24. Insecurity is the root of jealousy. If you are secure with yourself and your relationships, you have nothing to worry about.
　　缺乏安全感是嫉妒的根源。如果你自己和你的人際關(guān)系讓你很有安全感，那就沒什么可擔心的。

         我的人生感悟?qū)W習

　　In far too many classes that I have taught over the last 5 years, I have heard the refrain from students, "This is the first time we are learning this." Or, even more disturbing, "I wish I had learned this earlier in my college career."
　　在過去5年的時間里，在我教過的課堂中，總能從學生那里聽到這樣的說法，“這是我們第一次學習這方面的知識。” 或者能聽到更令人不安的說法，“我希望在大學中我能早點學到這方面的知識。”
　　What are some of the life lessons I would teach every college student--and career professional--if I had the chance? Here are seven of the most important lessons I fervently wish everyone could have the chance to learn:
　　如果我有機會，我會教給每個大學生(也包括專業(yè)老師)哪些人生課呢？這里有七堂 重要的課程，我熱切希望每個人都能有機會學習一下：
　　1. It's a waste of time and energy to find the person, peo or organization to "blame" for your troubles.
　　把自己面臨的困境歸咎于某個人、某群人或某個組織，這是在浪費時間和精力。
　　There are so many things in life that aren't fair; Why? Because you can't right all of the wrongs, and you won't ever be at peace if you are looking for fair. Does that mean you don't try to change things or fix yourself? Of course not! But, more importantly, focus on those things you can control and you can influence. Spend minimal time on those things that are comtely out of your control. Instead of blaming and finger-pointing, figure out what you can do to make a difference.
　　生活中有很多事情不公平，為什么？因為你不能糾正全部錯誤，如果你想要公平，你就不會內(nèi)心平靜。這是否代表你不應(yīng)該嘗試去改變什么，或是從自己身上做出調(diào)整改變呢？當然不是！但是更重要的是，專注于那些你可以控制并能起到影響作用的事情上。在那些脫離你的控制的事情上用 少的時間。不是簡單地挑挑毛病轉(zhuǎn)嫁責任逃避責任，你要弄清楚，到底自己能做些什么才能帶來改變。
　　2. Communication isn't natural and doesn't come easy to most peo.
　　溝通并不是自然而然的事情，溝通對于多數(shù)人來說都不是件容易的事情。
　　Yes, we learn to talk at an early age and talking, as well as walking, is a natural function for most peo. But talking and communicating are two different things. Communication takes focus and energy. It takes a sincere interest in the other person or peo. It requires active and reflective listening. In other words, you need to actually care about others if you ever really want to communicate effectively.
　　對！我們從小就學會了說話、走路，對多數(shù)人來說，是一種本身自然具備的能力。但說話和溝通是兩碼事。溝通需要精力專注、待人真誠，積極聽取他人意見和看法并對其做出反應(yīng)。換句話說，如果真的想做到有效溝通，需要真的在乎別人的感受。
　　3. Learn how to solve your own problems.
　　學會如何解決自己的問題。
　　Stuck in a rut? Many peo are, at some point in their life. Not sure what to do next or how to get somewhere? It's a common occurrence. The question is whether you spend your time lamenting how stuck you are, or you devote your attention to finding a new, creative way out of your problem.Be a problem-solver, not a problem-maker.
　　停滯不前？很多人在生活的某一階段原地踏步停滯不前。不知道下一步該做什么？該怎么去往某個想去的地方？這都是常見現(xiàn)象。問題在于，你是把時間用在感嘆自己處于如此卡殼的狀態(tài)，還是把注意力轉(zhuǎn)移到尋找新的創(chuàng)造性的出路上。要成為問題解決者而不是成為麻煩制造者。
　　4. Become curious--about yourself, about other peo and about the world around you.
　　保持好奇心——對自己、他人以及周遭世界
　　Don't take things at face value or believe everything you hear. Ask "why?" as often as a three-year-old. Be interested in what's underneath any information you hear, or learn. Where is it coming from? Why is it being passed along? What's the background or intention? This is different from being paranoid--instead, it's taking a sincere interest in learning. Life is a schoolhouse for those who want to learn and explore.
　　不要只看表面價值或相信你的耳聞，要像一個三歲孩子一樣經(jīng)常問“為什么？” 對你聽來的任何信息都感興趣想要了解一下。這個信息來自哪里？為什么傳出這個信息？這個信息的背景和目的又是什么？這并不是偏執(zhí)狂，而是對真心想了解學習的興趣。對于那些想要學習和探索的人而言，生活是一座校舍。
　兒童英語學習——人生的幾條建議

　5. Never stop networking or making connections.

　　永遠都不要停止社交或停止建議聯(lián)系。
　　For many peo the world is small; it's their family or the place of work they visit each day. There is a world of peo out there to connect with, to learn from and to engage with. You don't have to become a social butterfly, flitting from one event to another, but it's important to have connections and contacts. Keep in touch with peo. Be interested in their lives and share information about yours. You never know when you will need a friend or colleague to help you somewhere along the way.
　　對很多人來說，世界很小，這個小小的世界是我們每天生活或工作的地方。這個世界的人們都有著千絲萬縷的聯(lián)系，人們互相聯(lián)系，相互學習，彼此接觸。你不必成為一名交際花，把每件事都靈活妥善處理好，但是與大家保持聯(lián)系很重要。要有興趣與大家分享你的生活和信息。你永遠無法預(yù)料到在人生的某個時候，會需要朋友或同事幫你一把。

　　6. Share your talents.
　　分享你的才能。
　　Everyone has a gift to offer. It's a waste to keep your gifts hidden from the world. Find out what you are good at, or the talent you can share, and actively seek places to share those gifts.
　　每個人都有自己天生的才華，把自己的才華隱藏起來是一種浪費。發(fā)現(xiàn)自己的長處，或者找出你可以分享的才能，并積極尋求分享這些才華天賦的地方。
　　7. Give up being a naysayer.
　　不要做消極的否定者。
　　There are nty of peo who can tell you why something won't work, why it isn't possible and how negative to be. There are numerous newspapers and websites to tell you how dire circumstances are, and to encourage you to just give up. Instead, refuse to believe the naysayers and don't participate in their game. Find the positive in every day. Simply being able to walk, talk and breathe is a gift. Be a glass-half-full kind of person even when circumstances seem to tell you otherwise.
　　有很多人都告訴你：為什么這樣不行，為什么這樣是不可能的，又有多消極。在處于嚴峻情況的形勢下，多家報紙和網(wǎng)站都只是鼓勵你大不了放棄而已。不應(yīng)該這樣，你應(yīng)該拒絕相信這些消極的否定者，不要加入他們的游戲。每天去發(fā)現(xiàn)積極的東西。簡單如會走路、會說話、能呼吸，都是生活中美好的禮物。即使情況似乎很糟糕，也要成為樂觀的人。
　　The most learned person can only gain so much from reading books, from laboratory testing and from sitting in class. Real learning comes from experiencing the world and seeing your place in it. Try and apply any one of these seven tips to forward your life and career.
　　即使是 有才華的人，也只能從讀書、從實驗室實驗中以及坐在課堂上聽課收獲知識。真正的學習來源于經(jīng)歷這個世界，看清自己身處其中的位置。在你的生活和職業(yè)中，嘗試應(yīng)用上述這七個人生小貼士。

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